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    September 12

    关于大伯

    接到爸爸的电话,凌晨大伯走了。虽然之前听说这也是迟早的事情,还是心里一沉。
    对大伯的印象不是很深刻,和两家之间很少走动有关系吧,我开始读书之前回去过一次,再次回家已经是我考上大学了。大妈憨厚的笑容倒是深刻脑海,虽然那时候只有五周岁多点。大妈不能生育,所以在家里很少说话,憨厚的笑容是不是也和这有关系,我猜的。
    听妈妈说大伯年轻的时候很能干,是家里的长子,爷爷很早就去世了,所以在家里很有权威,也是因为如此爸爸和大伯一直有些芥蒂,不过妈妈这些从来都没有说过什么或者抱怨的,倒是爸爸一直没能真正的放下。
    我最为大伯纠结的还是堂哥的不懂事吧,很好的生活弄得很糟糕,只会在家里牛气,想当初还不如不要呢,当然我也从来没有为他做过什么,连披麻戴孝也没能做到,虽然道理上说是完全应该去的,但心里没有觉得非常的内疚,或许我是一个怪胎吧。
    只是想祝福大伯在天堂一路走好,一个平凡的人得到一个平静的归宿。祝大妈能从悲痛中走过来,希望再见到的时候依然能看到憨厚的笑。愿堂哥能过好自己的生活,照顾好大妈。
    大伯,您挂念的人和事都可以放下了,您一路走好。 —— 侄儿 小kuan

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    patrick liwrote:
    bless all! 
    12 Sept.

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